Healing ... Humanity and Mother Earth

March has been quite a month, hasn’t it? The energies have been abound showing us issues we need to address, from the earthquakes to tsunamis to human uprisings to man-made disaster, and personally as well for many of us. Opportunities to reflect, to think, to grow. Have we taken advantage of that?

In times like these there are so many that are eager to help Mother Earth and Humanity, which is a wonderful thing to witness. Yet, often I cannot help but wonder about some of the many ways in which people are trying to help. I believe that most people’s intentions in helping are good – though even the best of intentions do not always play out for the best of all concerned. So today, my guides have asked me to just speak a little bit about helping and healing others, including Mother Earth – just a few points for all us to think about and possibly comment on. The other day on my talk show my guides also jumped in to try and ensure that listeners understand the often warped world of helping and healing others.

Granted, intentions – as I stated above – are often beyond the shadow of a doubt originating from a loving and caring heart, especially because all souls are internally beautiful and pure. That said… is it possibly at times a bit arrogant to chart a course for healing others? Or Mother Earth? What I mean is, how are we to know, how am I to know what is best for another or Mother Earth? Well, you may say, we do receive guidance, don’t we? Guidance from prayers, visions, dreams, or via any of our other senses. Yes, I will say – absolutely… but in whatever we do, given that we are living a human experience there are at times agendas involved, not necessarily negative ones, not even ones we may be fully aware of at times but there may be some in our subconscious, all driven by the desire to do good and help others.

That’s a given to me (with a few exceptions, of course) but whenever I consider sending healing there are moral, ethical, and loving aspects I have to take into consideration.

I ask myself:

    Does this person want healing?

    Do I know what is best for this person? In all areas, ways, and possibilities?

    Do I know what this person’s lesson is , right here and right now?

    Do I know what this person can or cannot handle at this time?

    Do I know best what Mother Earth needs and why she’s exploding?

    What kind of healing shall I send?

    What are the benefits of me sending healing?

    …. And many more depending on the person or situation.

Why do I ask these questions? Well, as much as I may know I may not know the full picture because maybe Spirit doesn’t think it’s for me to know. If I don’t know or see the full picture anything I can do can actually backfire, can’t it?

For example, if I send healing to a friend who’s not quite willing or ready – what can the outcome be? Multiple forms…. Some good, some not so good; I may be interfering with my friend’s state of being, interrupting my friend’s lesson, thus diverting my friend’s path. Yes, I may wish to help and heal but if the other person’s not ready I am actually interfering in their personal affairs and this can be quite detrimental. One side effect may be that I’m in the “savior” role and that can lead to dependency on the part of my friend – yes, think about that…. All healers, all light workers just want to help and the most difficult lesson we have to learn is that we are not always supposed to jump in as we may ultimately be preventing the other from learning what they need, want or came here to learn. Mhmmm, that’s a tough one to consider, isn’t it?

The same goes for Mother Earth – do I know why she’s so upset? Do I know the ultimate needs of Mother Earth and how to best help or heal her? Only if I know the full picture.. then, when I know the whole picture and get her permission I can set up a nice treatment plan. But... I don’t think I do... I can see that Mother Earth is a bit upset at this time; she’s been showing us with her various weather patterns and outbursts for a while now… have we listened?

Many jump in and pray for specific outcomes, or send specific healing to one or another area of her existence – what about the other areas? Mother Earth is a complex entity, is it sufficient to send healing to just one part? Like taking an aspiring? Well, an aspirin in great in treating the symptom, isn’t it? But what about the root cause? How do we get to that? How do we know? Yes, you can talk to Mother Earth and she may give you an answer…. But again, this may be slightly tainted by your human experiences. So maybe, just maybe the best way to send healing to her is in a broad, global way – agenda free, if you will. If it’s broad and general then she can decide where and how she needs it and the energy can go where it’s most needed, guided by Source.

How about that? Maybe that’s a bit more efficient and loving for Mother Earth and people? In the end the healing and the help we send comes from love and love can heal … so why not focus on that when trying to help? Why make it more complicated?

Maybe one way in which helping and healing is truly for the best and highest of all is when we just send love and peace…. Can we try that for a while? But only to those that are ready, including Mother Earth – she doesn’t need to be “shut up” now, we need to figure out the root problem and as long as we don’t know or are not ready to address the root cause, let’s not confuse things more by arrogance that so often interferes twitch the best of intentions; let’s just send love and peace from an agenda-free, open, clear and clean heart.

Send that from your heart to hers, send that from your heart to your friend’s heart, send that from your heart to yourself, too. We can’t help or heal others if we don’t start with ourselves. 

What do you think?

Peace & Love,

N

Change … have you noticed?

There’s so much change all the time and still so many don’t like change… isn’t amazing that the one constant in all our lives is the one thing so many don’t appreciate or try to run away from? And of course, the argument is that they like things to be constant …interesting paradox.

Nothing ever stays the same and Mother Nature, once again shows that to us so beautifully these days… every day is different, weather predictions are … just that … predictions and more often than not these days here in MD they are not quite met by Mother Nature…. February has been an interesting ride .. March looks to be the same – ever changing 

For me … life’s been filled with changes and the last 6 months … wow … mostly unexpected changes but every day I see how they help my on my path.  You know, often we see an open door and we are worried about going through that door because of the question “what if” … yet, the “what if” might be good, have you noticed?  Most changes that we’re experiencing end up helping move us forward, develop more, grow more.  Of course, not all of it seems like that at the time but sooner or later we have that moment, that amazing moment of  “duh”!  And it all makes sense.

The fear we often have is based on our social conditioning, not our own heart and intuition because why then would we think or consider or notice the possibility of change in the first place? For example, if you’re thinking about ending a relationship – it came up for some reason, heart reason (maybe even just that you need to learn to more appreciate the other but still) and so what is the fear?  Often the fear is “what if” I end up alone, or “what if” I leave and others think I’m crazy, or “what if” I leave without having all my finances in order… just as an example because I think many of us have gone through that at one point or another.

Sometimes the changes affect us in ways we didn’t anticipate and we make them even more difficult than they have to be … even if deep down in our core, in our heart we know there’s a reason and we may even know the reason … we still sometimes create struggle. Isn’t that funny – we’re trying to fight the inevitable because that is the only constant. Plus, we change every day anyhow … a little extra grey hair maybe, or another little “laugh wrinkle”, or a different insight then we had yesterday, a different appreciation of the food we eat… but we often dismiss those constant ones as not “real” changes.  Why is that?  Maybe it’s because we’re used to them and they don’t scare  us while “big” or “real” changes, those that are more easily noticeable by others and us have us question the purpose of change.

Interesting .. I’m must asking … so often we hide behind these walls, these “safety nets” that we have created and that keep us from feeling, from being truly who we are, from being in touch with our core… because it saved us all the times before from being too hurt.  It’s about hurt often, isn’t it? 

A dear one is going through that at this time. He’s doing his best to adept but he clings to the images, boundaries, parameters he has set for himself that with a major life change that he tried to avoid for the longest times (and is related to his calling and his lesson) he can barely function right now.  There’s nothing he can do about the change – well, he could but he chose to accept it  because of the associated choices he made… all those are based on love and being a protector.  So here he is facing an inevitable change, trying to adjust but barely able to function knowing in his heart that this is something he always longed for but unable to admit it.  Fascinating, isn’t it?  Why do we fight change so much? 

Once we go with it, accept the change, accept that it’s part of us .. then we flow and life is easy and simple because we trust.  We trust that the pieces of our life’s puzzle are beginning to move into the right places for the whole puzzle to become one and beautifully finished. We may not know all the pieced or what the puzzle will ultimately reveal but we can trust that the puzzle exists and will be put together, right?

So let’s think about it: What changes are you experiencing?  

And even: What changes are you trying to resist?  (Don’t worry we all have some ….)

If we take a look at those maybe we’ll get to know ourselves a little better, trust a little more .. and appreciate all the little and big changes in our lives…. 

Peace & Love, N